I HATE MEN

well at least today... and only hubby’s type men, who are emotionless, have no interest in family life, never change and fight over same thing their whole life, make absolute no effort to have a peaceful life, never think of solving a problem which effects everybody’s life around them.. They think by avoiding & not talking about things is called solving even after friken so many years you are fighting over same things which leads to many other problems & new issues to fight about. Don’t they get any clue or they are just too dumb to realize.. There are so many men out there trying & making effort to have a loving satisfying life but are there people who want to fight every time they are home? I mean what kind of role model you will be for your kids? Or Just spending money makes up for every fight, every heartache and gives you back every second when you make other people feel so bad… Why can’t they realize that they are tearing you apart..

Few days back I read this on Keshi’s blog & can’t get it out of my mind..

You can have everything else in life but if you don't have love, respect, understanding and appreciation from your near and the dear ones, then you have nothing. If they can't and won't take few minutes to really listen to what you have to say, if they don't seem to understand how you feel, if they don't respect your feelings, if their love is just verbal only and if they demonstrate that your existence in their life is not appreciated, then why do you still hang around wanting to be heard and loved.

Today I don’t know the answer either… maybe because of the kids…

His First...

There are lots of things to write about on the blog but lately I am in no mood. Every day I think that once I am in better mood there will be post rain here:-) but something happened today that I had to tell you all about..

I went to drop off A this morning. He is catching a little cold so I was wiping his nose before leaving And all of a sudden a girl ran up to A hugged him tight with both hands around his neck & kissed him on his cheek then lips:-O Before I could react she did it again:-O I just froze there.. didn’t know what to say.. A was looking at me with a shy smile & she hugged him again.. :-)

OMG, It’s A’s first kiss (actually the first I saw). His teacher came up to me and I told her that she just hugged & kissed A twice.. She said that what they do all day :-) they are best friends..

I kissed A & left the 2 lovebirds alone, who were still holding hands;-) No wonder the minute he gets up in the morning he tells me “ I am getting late mamma, hurry up, I have to go to school.” And during weekend he wants to go to school too. He asks to go to school at least 50 time during weekend. Now I know the reason ;-D



This is her picture from the pumpkin picking trip. She was sitting next to me looking at me taking pictures of A & Gudiya so I asked her if she wanted me to take her picture too.. who knew I was gonna need it later:-)

Last Diwali

In Chandigarh with my cousin



He wanted to jump on Chakris


With my grandma who passed away in March


In Ludhiana with my other cousin & Bhua, who is holding Gudiya


With my Uncle aka Muchhe wale Nanu:-)


Last year we were in India this time and A had so much fun during diwali. He had never seen any firecrackers beside the firework on 4th of July. So last year was great since he gets to celebrate diwali twice and it lasted for almost a month… He started on fuljhari’s & chakris about 10 days before diwali & then after diwali we left for my bhua’s place in Ludhiana where they had saved bags full of firecrackers for him so we started again and every evening we used to go on roof & had fun:-) It was Gurpurav few days after diwali so people didn’t think we were crazy:-)

Now can't wait to be there next year.

I didn't take my camera there so these are pictures of pictures thats why a bit blury.

Happy Deepavali

From Our family to yours.... :-)

Ghumi-Ghumi?

Gudiya is usually up before A in the morning so I take her in the kitchen put on Sesame Street and gives her milk. I get ready while she watches Sesame Street then A gets ready and we are off to school. Hubby is usually up when we are ready to leave..

On Thursday I left and when hubby went in the kitchen

Gudiya: Mamma, A ghumi-ghumi.

Hubby: No, they went to school.

Gudiya: No,ghumi-ghumi.

Hubby: No, school.. say school, ssccchhoollll.

Gudiya: Nahi, mamma , A ghumi ghumi :-)

I got back & hubby told me that she is been saying that since we left. I changed my clothes while she followed me around asking for A

Gudiya: A??

Me: School.

Gudiya: Mamma, A ghumi ghumi.

Me: No ghumi ghumi, A went to school. We will go ghumi ghumi together.

Gudiya: A kool (school)... Mamma, A kool.

Me: Yes, good girl.

Gudiya: Mamma, A ghumi ghumi.

Now everyday I get back she says the same thing.. Maybe because she watches us get ready & leave...